The Daily Stoic Podcast has come be one of my favorite podcast to listen to and just recently I listened to on of the episode that has got me thinking ever since I did, and you have already seen from the title, the topic is “Don’t Sell Out”

The episode started with a question Epictetus asked in one of his discourses: “Your respect, trustworthiness and steadiness, peace of mind, freedom from pain and fear, in a word, your freedom. For what would you sell these things?”

Like I have come to love asking my readers, take a moment to think about it, you, yes you! Take a moment, take it personal because I’m asking you, so again to you my friend: “Your respect, trustworthiness and steadiness, peace of mind, freedom from pain and fear, in a word, your freedom. For what would you sell these things?”

And just as the Ryan Holiday went further to state that; the answer, too often, is “for pennies on the dollar.” We trade our word for a small edge in business. We mortgage our self-respect for fancy friends or fleeting fame. We auction our freedom for jobs that drain our souls or relationships that chip away at our dignity.

And this is true for many of us, we trade respect, trustworthiness, peace of mind, freedom from fear, our freedom, our words for pennies or at best even for millions, we sell our soul or relationship for fancy friends, we come to the point where our words no longer carry water, holds no meaning even to ourselves, sell ourselves and core values for materials things, chipping away at our dignity, in pursuit for fame and recognition, at the core we do all of these at the expense of my soul, and become properties to people and materials, again at the expense of our identity, values and principle.

But stoicism points out that virtues are priceless and the man who “sells out,” sells his soul, make himself a property, and prisoner to be confined to the four corners of no identity, or an identity that is unworthy of honor. Stoicism points out that these virtues are non-negotiable and we should not sell ourselves short by putting a price on them.

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The Four Non-Negotiables Virtues

In Stoic philosophy, four virtues form the unshakable foundation of human dignity:

Justice (Δικαιοσύνη) – Fairness in All Things

What’s due to other people as human beings, kindness, fairness, tolerance. – Marcus Aurelius

In Stoicism, justice (dikaiosynē) represents:

The virtue of fair social conduct
Commitment to communal well-being
Duty to treat others with inherent dignity
Balanced exchange in human interactions

What is not good for the hive cannot be good for the bee.
Marcus Aurelius

Three Pillars of Stoic Justice

Fairness Through Reason

Equal consideration of others’ humanity
Respect for universal moral laws
Objective judgment free from personal bias

Social Duty (Oikeiōsis)

Understanding our cosmic citizenship
Fulfilling role-based obligations
Contributing to communal flourishing

Don’t you know plants and animals do their own work…and humans abandon theirs?
Epictetus

Compassionate Action

Kindness as rational response to shared humanity
Protection of the vulnerable
Restorative rather than punitive approaches

Be tolerant with others and strict with yourself.
Marcus Aurelius

Justice like every other virtue is NOT just for you but for all; and we have to put it to work everyday, every hour, every minute, every second, and everywhere even when no one is watching.

Modern scenarios demanding justice:

Situation	Unjust Response	Stoic Just Response
Workplace discrimination	“Not my problem”	Document patterns, support affected colleagues
Friend spreading rumors	Participate in gossip	Privately confront with facts, defend absent
Witnessing police brutality	Film for social media	Intervene through legal channels, provide testimony
Inherited privilege	Exploit advantage	Create access opportunities, amplify marginalized voices

Ask yourself every morning “What social duties does my role demand today?” And apply justice test; and always remember that action, fairness, and common good is greater or equal to personal gain

And always reflect and ask yourself in the evening reflection “Where did I uphold human dignity? Where did I fail my cosmic citizenship?”

Always remember that Just having good intentions is never ever enough; where you can always do something about the situation.

The intention to engage in good acts can fail, and if our claim of good intention, when acted upon, can fail, it points out the principle that there is no merit in good intentions unless they are acted on.

One theory is that people tend to want to act in a good way (good intention) but don’t take any action at all. The delay, wrong action, and inaction don’t produce a good result and, in reality, could lead to a bad outcome. In this case, the best intentions without good and correct actions are, at best, ineffective and at worse detrimental.
Continue Reading: The Road to Hell Is Paved with Good Intentions – Means What Exactly?

Your life’s justice is weighed not by intentions, but by how the weakest in your sphere fare through your actions.

We sell justice when we:

Silence complicit lies to keep a promotion
Exploit others’ trust for personal gain
Prioritize tribal loyalties over universal truth

Moderation (Σωφροσύνη) – Discipline of Desire

No person has the power to have everything they want, but it is in their power not to want what they don’t have.
Seneca

Stoic moderation (sophrosynē) isn’t deprivation, but alignment with nature’s limits.

Wealth consists not in having great possessions, but in having few wants.
Epictetus

It’s the practice of distinguishing needs from cravings, freeing us from slavery to externals.

Key Practices of Moderation are:

The Dichotomy Drill

Ask yourself everyday if this desire is within my control? If not, mentally release it, the craving, the praise, the fear of criticism. And If yes, pursue virtuously, with the desire only to act justly.

Voluntary Constraints

Fasting to master hunger
Cold showers to temper comfort-seeking
Digital detoxes to curb distraction addiction

The Gratitude Audit

Every evening what you can do is to list, one necessity fulfilled, one craving resisted like impulse purchase, and one abundance appreciated for me it’s friendship amongst other things.

Discipline and moderation matters a lot because it is like the gatekeeper of virtue, because without it, our pursuit of wisdom becomes intellectual indulgence, our courage turns to reckless ambition, and our justice degrades into performative activity without the good intention, but with it:

Freedom: “It’s the privilege of the gods to want nothing, and of godlike men to want little” (Diogenes Laërtius)
Resilience: Markets crash, trends fade, but the moderate person remains unshaken.

You’ve endured worse on training days. Why falter now?
Marcus Aurelius:

Discipline and moderation isn’t denying life’s sweetness; it’s savoring deeply by taking small, deliberate bites.

But we sell moderation and discipline when we trade our peace for luxury cars and crushing debt’ when we swap our health for late nights “hustling and grinding.” We sell out and sell ourselves when we exchange our presence and attention for endless digital distraction.

Wisdom (Φρόνησις) – Tranquility Through Perspective

We suffer more in imagination than in reality
Seneca

Wisdom, as a virtue, transcends mere knowledge accumulation. It embodies the ability to discern truth, apply judgment with humility, and act ethically even in complex situations.

Wisdom is the integration of knowledge and experience, wisdom is bring together learned information with lived experience, and this helps us make the right and good decisions that account for small, now, and long-term consequences, and this beyond ethical thinking, a wise person will prioritizes moral principles over short-term gains, and balancing self-interest with the common good, but certainly common good. Wisdom enables us to tempers impulses like anger and greed, and through self-awareness, we build resilience and empathy.

But we sell wisdom when we let anxiety about tomorrow ruin today’s joy, when we chase status symbols that mean nothing on our deathbed, and when we mistake others’ opinions for truth about our worth.

The concept of objective truth is that, regardless of what we consider to be the truth, there will be certain facts that are certain to be true, and others will always be untrue. What we believe, however, they may be in reality, is not a factor in the facts that surround us. That which is true is always true, even if we stop believing it and even if we stop existing at all.

Postmodernism is a philosophical approach to life that acknowledges the existence of truth as objective; however, it denies that we will ever be able to know it with certainty, as we are all affected by various forces of culture that influence our judgment. Postmodernism says it is only ignorance and pride that allow people to claim, “I know this is true.” When postmodernists assert that “It is impossible to know anything for sure,” they make an objective assertion: If it is impossible to know anything for sure, then they can’t know that it is impossible.

In the end, fact and opinion are not the same; objective truth is the opposite of (subjective) opinions. It is possible to argue about whether a statement is subjective or objective; if it’s objective, people may debate about whether or not it’s true. Whatever the case, there is no way to deny that truth is objective. In the past, the role of the Christian was to prove the truthfulness of the biblical claims. Today, the job of the Christian is made more difficult due to the fact that, prior to speaking about the truthfulness of the Bible, the Christian has to often convince the audience that truth exists, particularly in relation to religions.
Continue Reading: What is Objective Truth: Is Truth Even Objective or Subjective?

Courage (Ἀνδρεία) – Bravery in the Arena

The greater the difficulty, the more glory in surmounting it.
Epictetus

Courage is not the absence of fear, but the resolve to act with integrity despite it. Courage shows as choosing honesty over comfort, vulnerability over pretense, or standing for justice when silence is safer.

History celebrates grand acts of bravery, but everyday courage shapes character like:

Admitting mistakes
Loving openly despite past hurt
Setting boundaries

Courage is the first virtue because it makes all others possible.
Aristotle

We can cultivate it not just with big step but very importantly in small steps, and it can ignite revolutions.

But we sell courage when we stay silent against injustice to avoid conflict, when we abandon dreams because failure seems probable, and we sell courage when we let fear of criticism dictate our authentic self and path.

And selling out comes with a cost, that I believe you already know by now.

The Cost of Selling Out, The Cost of Cheap Trade

Every time we compromise these virtues, we commit existential blunder, borrowing temporary comfort at catastrophic interest rates.

Better to trip with the feet than with the tongue.
Zeno of Citium

Treat your virtues like the rarest elements in the universe because they are and nothing compare.

No bulk discounts because your integrity is NOT a Black Friday sale.
No layaway plans because courage can’t be paid in installments.
And No clearance racks and this is because wisdom gains value with age, so do NOT lose that value, do NOT lose that TIME!

Your life is not a distressed asset to be sold, and as Marcus Aurelius wrote in his Meditations: “You could leave life right now. Let that determine what you do and say and think.”

Hold your virtues as the ultimate currency; give them, gift them, let them compound in service to truth, in pursuit of excellence, in defense of human dignity. The market may crash, reputations may burn, but a soul traded wisely becomes fireproof.

Conclusion

In the words of Ryan Holiday from The Daily Stoic Podcast- Don’t Sell Out: “Your respect, trustworthiness and steadiness, peace of mind, freedom from pain and fear, in a word your freedom. For what would you sell these things?”

The answer, too often, is “for pennies on the dollar.” We trade our word for a small edge in business. We give up peace of mind for a bigger house or a nicer car. We mortgage our self-respect for fancy friends or fame. We sell our freedom for a job that makes us miserable, or a relationship full of incessant fighting.

We only have one life to live…and how many of us sell it quickly and cheaply instead of holding on tightly to this incredible asset we have been given? We value our principles and our happiness like penny stocks, like fetid swampland.

In Stoicism, there are four virtues that sit atop the ledger of human existence: Justice. Moderation. Wisdom. Courage. That is: Fairness. Discipline. Tranquility. Bravery. Compared to these things, everything else is cheap, if not worthless. No bargain is worth giving them up. And only a sucker sells them.