Stop Using the “At Least” Mentality as an Excuse for Dysfunction
Human beings possess an extraordinary, almost terrifying capacity for adaptation. When dropped into a hostile,…
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How to Win Against Lust as a Christian
One of the most intense, unvarnished battlegrounds in the life of a believer is the…
The Survival Trap: Beyond Problem Solving to Solution Building
Obviously, we live in a culture that hails the resilient individual, which on its own…
The Foot-in-the-Door Trap: When Does a Small Ask Become Too Much?
It always starts with something completely reasonable. From the video I just saw, the speaker…
“It’s Not That Deep” The Most Dangerous Lie We Tell Our Souls
Today, so many of us have developed a highly sophisticated vocabulary for our own compromise.…
The Tyranny of Small Decisions: The Dangerous Power of the “Just This Once” Mindset
I think it is a reasonable thing to say that: Almost nobody ever wakes up…
Don’t Wrestle Like a Pig: Knowing When to Stand Your Ground and When to Walk
Some people are totally obsessed with having the last word. From the comment sections of…
Stop Suffering! The Urgent Case for Getting Your Act Together
I know many of us like to tell ourselves that we are fine. We tell…
The Mandate for The Formidable Character with Virtue
In the modern landscape of personal development, there is a pervasive and dangerous misunderstanding of…
The Tragic Dream of the Aspiring Oppressor
The history of human civilization is often written as a linear progression toward liberty, a…